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What to Write in Your Journal When Your Mind Goes Blank

  • Oct 2, 2024
  • 5 min read

Updated: Jul 30


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Hey beautiful!


Have you ever opened your journal with every intention of writing... only to stare at a completely blank page? Welcome, you're in good company.


Sometimes your mind is racing so fast you can't catch a single thought. Other times you're simply tired, overwhelmed, or don't know where to begin.


Guess what? you don't have to wait for inspiration.


Some of my favorite journal entries started with a single question or a simple list. Journaling is more than just writing something profound every day, the magic in it is how it gives your thoughts a place to go.


So I want to demystify journaling for those of you who need it. And help you understand that journaling doesn't have to be complicated or deep every single time. Sometimes you just need a little prompt to get those thoughts flowing.


Here are ten ideas I come back to whenever I don't know what to write.

Let's get into it!


10 Journaling Ideas to Try When You're Stuck


1. Gratitude List (The Mood Booster)


I know, I know....everybody is talking about gratitude lists , but hear me out - they actually work.


When I'm having a rough day, which, let's be real - I'm in perimenopause, I have an eleven year old son, a husband and a full time job....it's gonna happen. Taking a minute to write down 3-5 things I'm grateful for shifts my entire mood.


And it doesn't have to be deep. Mine usually looks like:


  • My tea was perfect today

  • My bed sheets felt so good this morning

  • That meme my friend sent made me laugh


It's that simple. But focusing on the good - even the tiny good - makes the hard days feel a little less heavy.


2. Daily Reflections (Your Personal Highlight Reel)


At the end of the day, it helps to do a quick mental rewind and capture what happened.


Not the whole day play-by-play, but the moments that stood out:


  • What made today special?

  • What surprised me?

  • What challenged me?

  • What did I learn?


Sometimes it's just "Today was hard but I got through it." Other times it's processing something deeper.


The point is - writing it down helps you process your day instead of just letting it blur into the next one. Plus, when you look back months later, you'll be amazed at how much you've grown.


3. Dream Journaling (AKA What Was My Brain Thinking?!)

My peri friends: is perimenopause giving you the WILDEST dreams? It certainly is for me! I'm talking full movie productions happening in my sleep, and usually it has to do with the last thing I heard or saw.


If you wake up from a dream that felt significant, weird, funny, or just really vivid - write it down! Even if it makes zero sense.


I try to learn about what's going on in my subconscious by tracking my dreams. It's hardly ever easy or clear, but it's fun and often insightful. It's sort of a course in acceptance and letting go because some questions will never be answered and just need to be accepted.


Plus, it's honestly just entertaining to read back later and be like "why was I at Target with Beyoncé buying chin hair shavers?!"


4. Goals & Intentions (Dream Big, Start Small)


Your journal is the perfect place to get clear on what you want. It's private and it won't judge. So get it all out - big dreams, small goals, or just getting through the week without losing your mind.


When I'm trying to get clear on where I'm headed, I don't usually make a giant to-do list. I ask myself questions like:

  • What's been taking up too much space in my mind lately?

  • What would make today feel meaningful?

  • What's one thing I can let go of this week?

  • What do I need more of right now?

  • What's one small step my future self will thank me for?


And here's the key - break those big goals into tiny, doable steps. Every time

you check off a step, it feels like a win. And even small wins feel amazing.


5. Personal Philosophies(Or What You Might Know as Affirmations)


I like to call them personal philosophies because they're more than feel-good statements to me. They're beliefs I come back to when I need a reminder of who I am and who I want to be.


Writing personal philosophies in my journal helps them sink in way more than just saying them out loud. I've always known that there's magic in pen to paper - something about writing the words makes them feel more real.


My favorites right now:

  • I'm allowed to change my mind.

  • I can meet myself with compassion.

  • My thoughts aren't always facts.

  • I trust myself to figure it out.

  • Not everything deserves my attention.


6. Write The Spiral

Write every anxious thought exactly as it appears in your head.

Don't edit it.


Don't judge it.


Just get it out.


Then read it back.


Often the page gives you enough distance to realize which thoughts are fear and which ones deserve your attention.


7. Books, Music, and Movie Reflections (What Moved You?)


I'm in a Book/Multimedia Club (shout-out to my Book Club crew!), so I write about what I read, listened to, or watched often. But it's also super beneficial to journal about how I FEEL about them.


Like:

  • What did this book teach me?

  • Why did this song make me cry?

  • What did I connect with in this movie?


It's a fun way to process media and also creates this cool record of what you were into at different points in your life.


8. Visual Journaling (When Words Aren't Enough)


Sometimes I can't find the words, so I doodle instead.


And I'm not talking about perfect art - I mean messy scribbles, random shapes, colors that represent how I'm feeling. Sometimes a quick sketch captures an emotion better than paragraphs ever could.


You can also:

  • Collage with magazine cutouts or printed images

  • Use colored pencils or markers

  • Add stickers or washi tape

  • Draw mandalas or patterns


It doesn't have to be "good" - it just has to express what you're feeling.


9. Self-Care Tracker (Because You Matter)


I started tracking my self-care because I know if it's written down, I will accomplish it. If not written down, I could go weeks without doing anything for myself and wonder why I felt burned out and stressed.


Now I write down plans for the ways I'll take care of myself each day:


  • Take a walk

  • Say no to something that would've drained me

  • Eat a nourishing meal

  • Rest when my body demands it - without guilt

  • Do my cardio and/or strength training


Writing it down reminds me that self-care needs to happen (even when it doesn't feel like enough) and helps me stay consistent.


10. Energy Check-Ins (How Am I Really Feeling?)


This one's especially helpful if you're dealing with perimenopause, chronic stress, or just trying to understand your patterns better.


I check in with myself and write about:


  • How's my energy today? (physical and emotional)

  • What's draining me?

  • What's giving me life?

  • Where am I holding tension?

  • What does my body need right now?


If you're into chakras or energy work like me, you can track that too. Write out what feels aligned, what feels blocked, and how your practices are helping.


The point is just tuning into yourself and honoring what you notice.



Until next time,


signature - heart Nicki




P.S. Not sure where to begin? 

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Head over to the resources page and try this free printable to jump start your journaling journey








Todays Reflection

Take a few moments before you close this page.


Notice

When you sat down to write today, what felt easiest to put on paper? What surprised you?


Explore

Which journaling idea from today's post are you most excited to try the next time you're not sure what to write? Why do you think that one stood out?


Carry Forward

The next time you find yourself staring at a blank page, choose just one prompt and give yourself five uninterrupted minutes. Let curiosity lead instead of pressure.


 
 
 

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